Both of these cultural ditties push the one aspect of failure which makes it an important part of our lives ... it’s the “lessoned learned” which informs us of what NOT to do ... it’s the Feddback Loop into our lives, allowing us to eventually succeed.
As Systems Engineers we face failures every time we take our product in the evaluation phase of its development cycle. Will it meet the requirements, both technical and operational? And of course we’re the ones who need to evaluate the impact these failures will have on the overall project. The cost, schedule and performance issues must be addressed in a creative and resourceful way. Such is the burden and responsibility of the Systems Engineer.
Of course failures come in may sizes. Small ones from your test events that can be worked off as a “lien” against the product acceptance. Or the large failures which occur after the product has been deployed and during its operation. Lives and the environment can be ruined as a result. Just look at BP oil spill in the gulf. But no matter the size or enormity of the failure it’s still there as a “warning.” Don’t make the same mistake, learn from the lesson, embrace the failure as a part of the price to be payed towards the road of a positive outcome. It’s OK to fail, just don’t let it stop you from going forward.